Name: Karim Aboushady
Country: Cairo, Egypt
Age, gender, marital status: 20; Male; Single
Family details: Karim’s mother, father, uncle, brother and sister are all in the United States. His other sister and the rest of his family still reside in Egypt.
Native Language: Arabic
Occupation: Karim currently works full time at Starbucks as a manager, and he is also attending Wake Technical Community College to get his degree in Accounting.
Path to Coming Here: Karim’s father and uncle came to the United States in 1977 to attend college, and then open their own business. His father moved the family to the United States in 2000, and Karim started 9th grade at Millbrook High School in Raleigh.
Goals/Intentions/Dreams: Karim’s current dreams are to own his own Hookah bar in Raleigh. If that doesn’t work out, he wants to open his own wholesaling business. There is also a possibility that he will take over his father’s and uncle’s carpet cleaning business after his father retires.
Life before and after: As far as living conditions go, life in the United States is much better for Karim. When asked specifically what is better about the US, he answered “Everything.” He also told us that Egyptians who were educated in the United States got more respect and better jobs back in Egypt then people educated in Egypt. Karim said that he misses the strong sense of community that he had in Egypt. He also said that Egypt is more fun than the United States and there was “more stuff to do” there.
Challenges: The challenges of living in the United States are the people, individual community, and language. Karim says the people in Egypt were generally friendlier than in the US, because as you walk through town there, you know everybody. In the US, he says, the communities are more individualized, and that took some getting used to for him. When Karim first moved here, he didn’t know any English, he learned it all once he was already living here. He said it wasn’t very difficult to learn how to speak English, he just had some problems with the grammar. Today, Karim’s English is very good, and he only has a slight accent.
Acculturation: Karim says that he has taken the things he likes about each culture and put them together. At home his family still keeps their traditions, but Karim also enjoys activities that other Americans would. He has found a lot of Arabic friends in Raleigh that he hangs out with regularly, but he also has a lot of American friends too. Him and his friends spend a lot of time together doing both American and more Arabic activities, like going to movies and shopping, but they also go to hookah bars and have parties where they dance to Arabic music. They all include their American friends in this too, so it’s interesting to see how he not only experiences and embraces our culture, but lets Americans experience some of his culture.